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In love and ready for your first time?

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You’re madly in love for the first time, and hopefully it's mutual. You wonder how everything works. Kissing, caressing, plus your own insecurities are on your mind. Getting to know yourself is all part of this. How do you know when you’re ready to take things further? And are you well prepared? Know what you're getting into and be clear about what you want. Discover all the information that might interest you here!

Is it mutual?

Great, you're in love. And the other person? Do they feel the same?

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The first time

Are you ready for your first time? Prepare yourself by reading the tips.

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Who do you fancy?

Lots of young people wonder: am I gay, lesbian, straight or bisexual? The answer isn't always that simple. 

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When it’s the first time

What do you actually do the first time you have sex? That could be all kinds of things! Read these tips for inspiration.

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Coming-out

Who do you tell hat you’re gay, lesbian or bisexual? Do you always have to tell someone? When is the best time to do it?

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Male orgasm

A man who is aroused can come. Coming is another way of saying that you have an orgasm.

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In love with a transgender person

Are you in love with someone who is transgender? It can be very confusing for you! But you’re not the only one.

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What is the vulva?

What does a vulva consist of. And how can you look at your own vulva?

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How does penetrative sex work?

Penetrative sex means an erect penis goes into the vagina. How does it work? Read handy tips on penetrative sex.

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How does cunnilingus work?

Cunnilingus may give a woman an orgasm. How do you do that - cunnilingus? And how do you find out what you both like?

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Chatting up tips

You're in love. But what about the other person? How do you get together with them?

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Are you ready?

Maybe you're not sure if you’re ready to have sex. Ask yourself the following questions.

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Flirting online

Have you met someone online? Exciting! How do you flirt online? And how do you keep it fun and stay safe?

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Female orgasm

A woman who is aroused can come. Coming is another way of saying that you have an orgasm.

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Kissing

Kissing is usually the first thing you do when you’re in love. But how do you start? And when are you getting it right?

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Breaking up

Not many relationships last a lifetime. That’s especially true when you're young; you often break up after a few weeks or months.

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How does masturbation work?

Masturbating is a turn on. How do you do it?

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Fellatio

Stimulating the penis with your tongue and mouth is called fellatio. How does it work, how do you do it and in what positions?

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How to use a condom

How do you put a condom on correctly?

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Problems in your relationship

Sometimes you have problems in your relationship. Don't bottle it up. Talk about it.

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Playing with yourself

You can have sex by yourself. Lots of people play with themselves. That includes people who are in a relationship.

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10 tips for a good relationship

How do you make sure you have a good time together? Be nice to each other, stick up for yourself and do fun things together.

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Touching and caressing

Do you know where your partner’s sensitive spots are? You find this out by caressing your partner.

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How does fingering work?

How does fingering work? Use it to make a woman come.

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