<p>Sex is great. Sex is fun. And sometimes sex is a problem. How do you deal with sex? What do you like doing? And do you know what turns your partner on?</p>

When you have sex with someone, it's perfectly normal to talk about it. How else can you let them know what you want?

Talking about sex

Are you ready for your first time? Prepare yourself by reading the tips.



The first time

There are many ways of making love, with your clothes on or naked. You can play with yourself. You can make love with a partner.

Sex techniques

Are you having a problem with sex? It happens to most people at some time. Luckily, you can do something about it.

Sexual problems

Alcohol and drugs have an effect on your sex life. Read here about those effects and risks when you have sex, and how to keep it fun and safe.

Sex, alcohol and drugs

Sex and the internet

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Sex abc

How do you make love when you are gay, lesbian or bisexual? Sex between women and sex between men starts the same as it does with a man and a woman.

Lesbian, gay, bi

1 in 6 girls and 1 in 25 boys sometimes get talked into sex or are forced to have it. This means that many young people have sex against their will at some point.


Gone too far?

Only condoms protect you against STIs. The pill is a well-known type of contraception. There are many other methods to prevent pregnancy. Choose the one that suits you best.



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Touching certain spots on your body gives you a great feeling and turns you on. These are called erogenous zones.

Which spots these are, varies from person to person. Just as the way someone likes to be touched can vary. Every body is different, each person too. There’s no such thing as ‘normal’ and that’s OK.

Do you know where to find the erogenous zones? Discover them here ─ someone else’s sensitive spots, or your own.

Parts of your body feel extra nice when you touch them. They are called erogenous zones. Discover them here.

Discover your own and your partners sensitive spots. Do you know where they are?

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