Sex
How do you make love when you are gay, lesbian or bisexual? Sex between women and sex between men starts the same as it does with a man and a woman. You like each other a lot, and you fall in love. You kiss, caress and do whatever turns you on.
A few rules
- Only have sex with someone if you really want it.
- Only do things that you both enjoy doing.
- Don't let anyone talk you into doing something you don't want to do, or have your doubts about.
- Don't talk your partner into doing something he or she doesn't want to do.
The first time ♀♀
Lesbian girls talk about their first time: about virginity and sex, discovering each other's bodies, experimenting and having an orgasm.
The first time ♂♂
Young gay men talk about their first time: about pleasure, real sex, discovering yourself, licking and sucking the penis and the difference between top and bottom.
Who do you fancy?
Am I gay, lesbian, straight, or bisexual? The answer isn't always that simple. That's because your sexual preference is not always 100% clear.
When you find out
Not everyone is happy to find out they are gay, lesbian or bisexual. It can be very confusing. What can you do if you find out that’s who you are?
Coming out
Coming out means telling people you are gay, lesbian or bisexual. Who do you tell and do you always have to tell someone? When is the best time to do it?
Where do you find others?
Your first contact with other gay, lesbian or bisexual people is often a terrific moment: you realise you're not alone! But where do you find these people?
In love. What next?
Hoe weet je of degene op wie je verliefd bent op jou valt? Het is lastiger als je homo, lesbisch of bi bent. Zeker als je hier zelf niet open over bent.
Are you looking for help?
If something is bothering you, talking about it can be a relief. You can do that with someone you know, with a social worker or anonymously at Sense.info.